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Confidence is the ability to believe in yourself and your abilities. Confidence is the belief that no matter what happens in your life, you will be able to handle it with grace and dignity and will come out of it triumphant.

It is significant to have confidence in today’s world. And lack of it cannot only restrict you from living your life to the fullest, but you will never know your full potential.

So, here are a few ways through which you can build up your confidence and lead a fulfilling life.

Know your strengths and Weaknesses.

The best way to develop confidence is to know your strengths and weaknesses in the best possible way. No one will be able to look down on you if you know yourself better.

The best thing about knowing your strengths and weaknesses is that you can use them to your advantage. You will learn how to handle your life’s circumstances. It will also give you a sense of security and wisdom. You can make better decisions in your life that will empower you and your future.

All you need to do is to draw a line on a piece of paper and write all the things you think you are good at and things that are not so good, according to you. This will also help you self-reflect and highlight the situations when you proved your prowess and when you failed.

Therefore, telling you the areas where you need to work.

Also read: 8 things to know about yourself.

Accept yourself the way you are.

Once you know your strengths and weaknesses, you don’t need to bash yourself for them. Practice some self-love and accept the way you are. No one can look down on you if you lovingly accept yourself.

That does not mean that you become narcissistic and start thinking highly of yourself. You can take a different approach this is who you are, and you deserve to be loved the way you are. Your existence is important, and you create a difference in the world. You matter.

You can take the help of positive journaling and affirmations to change your mindset. Regular practice with some faith will not only help you in believing in yourself. But it will also help you in building yourself with a positive mindset instead of a scarcity mindset.

Don’t dwell on your past.

One of the big roadblocks to elevating your confidence is remembering embarrassing things. And the memories of failure when you could not prove yourself in a better way.

This tendency of making you dwell on your past serves as a tool to sabotage yourself while you are constantly trying to live a better life. Try not to dwell on your past and embarrassing memories for too long.

Consider that you are human, and certain mistakes are inevitable. Learn the lesson from them and move on.           The more you keep thinking about it, the more you will pull yourself backward.

Confident people consider mistakes a part of their lives. They don’t define themselves by their mistakes. You may have to work harder to compensate for them, but always move forward with self-assurance.

Also read: How to learn to let go?

There is always room for improvement.

There is a thin line between confidence and overconfidence. Blurring that line can hinder your growth. It is not good for your personality. Therefore, once you stop letting yourself be defined by your mistakes, you must also understand that there is always room for improvement.

You can also forgive yourself by letting yourself know that to err is to be human. Hence, do not over-pressurize yourself and improve yourself as you learn more about life and yourself as you try to lead it.

Once you elevate your life, you may face bigger challenges. It often happens in video games. The higher levels bring more challenges that you need to learn to face. With this mindset, your confidence will remain unfazed, no matter the situation.

Also read: 10 things you wish you knew to improve your life.

Be Curious and always improve.

One of the best ways to improve your confidence is to remain curious. Try to know more things as you try to improve at the game of life. This will not only enhance your knowledge but will also make sure that the child in you remains full of wonder.

If you have noticed, little kids are neither scared nor embarrassed to ask questions. Rather, they will grill you with more questions until they do not get a satisfactory response because society has not yet conditioned them. So, they are not shy about their curiosity.

You also need to stay like a kid. Or you need to keep your child-like wonder alive. This will help you improve in all aspects of life, no matter what. It will enhance your critical thinking, which will further boost your confidence.

Even if someone looks down on you, you can always counter that with your critical thinking skills.

Also read: How to live an interesting life?

Be experimental in life.

Being adventurous in life opens doors to multiple pursuits. You can get to know a lot about yourself through those pursuits. You will understand your mental, physical, and emotional threshold. And will develop a problem-solving attitude towards life.

This will not only give you a positive approach towards life but also push you to create a learning streak. That will eventually improve your confidence in the long run. The best part is that the more time it will take for your confidence to build up during this process, the more concrete and sustainable it will be.

Looking back, you will realize how far you have come and how much you have conquered. You will learn to look at the world not from a perspective that you have to win it one day, but you will want to understand it more thoroughly from a space of empathy.

Think positively about yourself.

When you are on the journey to gain more confidence, you need to think positively about yourself. For that, you need to tame your mind to quiet down that negative voice that comes to the surface to demotivate you.

You need to learn to see good things in yourself even though the world doesn’t see it yet. You must understand that there is more to you than meets the eye of people who constantly criticize you. You can engage in constructive criticism and perpetually try to learn more. However, don’t be put down by negative thinking.

To level up your confidence, you must maintain distance from toxic people. Their toxic talk can find a space in your brain and manipulate you into thinking badly about yourself. Soon, your brain will start believing those things and propel you towards a negative mindset. You must not let that happen.

Maintain good posture and hygiene.

When talking about exuding confidence, it must come from the inside. You will be confident when you are feeling good about yourself. It means that you maintain good posture at all times. If your posture is wrong, you will feel low on energy, and your attitude will change as well.

However, if you have a straight posture, you will not only create an impression of a confident person, but it will also immediately create a difference in your attitude. Similarly, practicing good hygiene, wearing clean clothes, and carrying a presentable look can make you feel good about yourself.

That involves thorough cleansing, smelling good, wearing fitted clothes, skincare, body care, and staying physically fit. Hence, anything like acne scars, uneven skin tone, body odor, bad posture, etc., makes your confidence low. Make sure that you immediately work on these things.

Also read: How to become confident in your appearance?

Practice small talk.

After your looks, your communication skills are the second-best thing that can elevate your confidence tenfold. Therefore, it is necessary to know how to start and maintain a conversation.

According to a study done in 2022, 64% of the Gen Z population does not know how to do small talk. They don’t know how to carry on a conversation or express themselves efficiently. This has majorly affected their selection chances at corporate interviews.

Therefore, it is important to develop soft skills. Similarly, maintaining a warm smile and politeness can also contribute to your confidence levels. It creates a positive impression on the person you are talking to. Thus giving your brain a positive affirmation that everything is going right.

Also read: Effective listening can change your life. Here’s how to practice it in your daily life.

Work on your mindset.

The most important thing when you are working on your confidence is to work on your mindset. You cannot develop confidence if you live with a scarcity mindset. If you constantly compare yourself with other people, you will never be able to work on your confidence.

Therefore, it is crucial to stop comparing and start focusing on your growth. Confidence is something that you will only have when you have faith in yourself.

To develop confidence, you need to understand that you are unique and so is your life. Developing an attitude of gratitude will also help you in this journey. Instead of complaining, be grateful for the things that you already have. Invest time and effort in developing what you are good at and see yourself shine.

Conclusion

Unlike popular belief, developing confidence is not a linear path. At times, you will feel that you have worked a lot on yourself and now you are a confident individual. But one day, you will not feel so good about yourself, and your confidence will feel like it is crashing.

Hence, it is important to keep going and keep experimenting. Keep exploring and keep developing yourself to know that you can do better no matter what.

The belief that you need to fake confidence to appear confident is not true. Only by having faith can you truly be yourself. Standing tall and strong.